Now I have a second cousin - Karen. I kind of figured that Philys had kids I just never heard about it. She's interested in genealogy which comes as a surprise. On that side of the family I am woefully ignorant. For the longest time I didn't fully grasp the real relationship between my family and their family. Roger is my 1st cousin once removed as is Audrey and Philys. Also at last I've finally got a handle on how this cousin thing works. You just look up the tree if you have a common grandfather you are 1st cousins, if you have a common great-grandfather then you are 2nd cousins, etc. If your common parent is off by one generation then you are once removed.
I hope Karen has some old pictures I can add to the project. I also hope she can give me the location of my only living uncle. We'll see